想像導演要你演不同個性的人來做一樣的工作
弟弟:
爸爸說:跟陌生人攀談對你來說是太難了,我倒覺得這雖不是你的本性,但你其實已經練習很久了。你一直在做一個對人友善的人,和大家結好緣,甚至要求自己討好人,那其實也不是你最喜歡的事,不過你一直做的很好。
我跟你說,其實討好陌生人比討好認識的人簡單的多了! 和陌生人建立關係沒有任何背景負擔和未來承擔,你對他陌生,他對你也陌生,所以你可以嘗試用不同方式和他互動: 熱情的、愛講話的、有點酷酷的、講酷酷話的、聆聽溫柔型的、活潑的、-------就當自己在演不同的戲,而有一個想像導演要你演不同個性的人來做一樣的工作。對未來發展,你也不要先預設期待,這是神的事工、由祂來掌舵,你的唯一期待就是好奇神會如何來帶領? 並沉思他給你的課題。
姐姐非常喜歡她的實習,也做的不錯,得到家長的肯定,校長已邀她畢業後去任教。哥哥現在每晚念書2-3小時,做考前衝刺。我們的農舍初圖已完成,蓋兩樓半,書房、老爺婆婆房在一樓、琴房三樓、臥房都在二樓。另,慧娟乾媽已搬到12樓我們樓上,所以現在來喜暫住家裡,但已找到主人,等有鄰居抗議時再送走,因為不捨她奔波!
記得,做神的事工,是神決定結果,所以不是由人的眼光看成敗。好好享受和人相處的不同經驗! 加油! 我們愛你! 替媽媽把自己照顧好!
愛你的媽媽07/25/11 清晨
為我的teaching skill祈禱吧!
親愛的家人:
所以姊姊已經找到工作了!?太強了吧! 恭喜阿姊姊,繼續加油,哥哥也加油!
這週過的還不錯! 多了很多教課的機會,我發現我teaching真的很爛,輪到我時,我都不知道要講什麼,我的同伴說我宣講我的福音那本書讀的還不夠熟,他也覺得我聖經沒讀熟。他說這地區信基督教的人非常多,教派也很多,對新約耶穌基督的故事不熟的話會被人找到把柄,說我們只讀摩爾門經而不讀聖經,又崇拜約瑟私密而不是耶穌基督,其實我新舊約聖經還真的很少翻,所以還挺慘的。但現在每天只有半小時,時間不太夠用。加油! 我更要加油!
我因為學的很慢,有時候大同伴的指示沒聽懂,使他對會我很不耐煩(有時候),哈哈! 我覺得你信提對陌生人攀談的說法很有道理,我現在最大的問題還是不知道要講什麼,還有我講話有時候會太快導致沒人聽的懂。 我們教很多中國人,但我覺得我中文也教的不好,現在唯一能做的就是多練習。並祈求聖靈啟發了。
記得我在BYU的時候跟提到過的化學教授嗎? 他跟我說他的女兒在台灣傳過教,那時我打電話問你,你說有可能是木姊妹,還記得嗎? 跟你講超巧的! 我現在服務的單成支會是木姊妹現在去的支會! 她是華盛頓大學的學生。我們發現原來哥哥那時回台受洗時,木姊妹正在花蓮服務,她還給我看那 時哥哥洗禮後我們全家的合照,實在是太巧了。
為我的teaching skill祈禱吧! 我也會繼續為你們禱告!
Love you all! 7/25/11 中午
每週我們都會寫信給傳教部會長,我把他複製給你們:
Dear President,
I can't decide whether this is a good week or tough week. I think it's both.
We were able to reach the Standard of Excellence: we taught 20 total lessons. We also found 7 new investigators. So that is good.
This week, however, I found that i am really having a hard time teaching, or teaching by the Spirit.
Elder Lee said that I don't know the PMG doctrines, Book of Mormon, or Bible well enough. I have to agree. I started reading PMG in MTC, and haven't even finished the whole book yet. I have only read the Book of Mormon once with the Book of Mormon class I took at BYU. I have not read any Bible at all.
I remember in the past how I was hesitating whether to go on a mission. I felt that I don't know enough to teach yet. Of course I am glad now that I am here, but sometimes I still think that i don't know enough to teach. The only thing I can do now is just to study hard.
I hope I will get be better.
I can't decide whether this is a good week or tough week. I think it's both.
We were able to reach the Standard of Excellence: we taught 20 total lessons. We also found 7 new investigators. So that is good.
This week, however, I found that i am really having a hard time teaching, or teaching by the Spirit.
Elder Lee said that I don't know the PMG doctrines, Book of Mormon, or Bible well enough. I have to agree. I started reading PMG in MTC, and haven't even finished the whole book yet. I have only read the Book of Mormon once with the Book of Mormon class I took at BYU. I have not read any Bible at all.
I remember in the past how I was hesitating whether to go on a mission. I felt that I don't know enough to teach yet. Of course I am glad now that I am here, but sometimes I still think that i don't know enough to teach. The only thing I can do now is just to study hard.
I hope I will get be better.
加油!I belive you will get be better!
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